Monday, June 21, 2010

Going Private?

I know a lot of people have their blogs private and I never really understood why you wouldn't want people to read up on your life and your adventures. I LOVE updating our blog and I love looking back and seeing what we did and when we did it. But lately I have been seeing more and more why people go private. Kyle and I do what we want to do, we care about other people's feelings but lately we have realized that it is our lives and we want to do what we want to do, regardless. So when I post our adventures and activities, people attempt to make Kyle feel guilty for spending time with his wife and son. We know that other people are important, but our lives and job schedules are so hectic that more often than not, the little time we do have to spend, we want to spend alone together. I feel that since some people seem to not know boundaries and when it is appropriate to add their "two cents", it might be best to go private so we don't have to deal with the drama. It is not something we need right now nor is it something neither Kyle or I want to deal with anymore. So what do you think? Any opinions are greatly appreciated. And send me your email if you want to be invited, if I do decide to do it, there will not be a notice... I will just do it. Thanks!

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  4. People are jerks Shan and whoever it is that's making you feel like that can shove it!! You'd better add me if/when you go private! katie_thornley@yahoo.com

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  5. All I have to say... is ... You've gotta do what is best for you and your family!!! What keeps you guys strong!!! We'd love an invite of you do decide!!! christinablood@gmail.com

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  6. I had to delete my posts!!! haha, they were a little too "firey".

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  7. I'm always for going private. (Just a thought, it helps to have another none-private blog that anyone can find and that you can tell your readers when you have updated your private blog.) Yes please give me an invite if you decide to go private. Mrripp64@gmail.com.

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